February 22, 2012

How can social networking benefit your child?


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As a growing number of teenagers get hooked onto social networking sites like Facebook, parents are increasingly concerned about the affect it will have on their child. Teenagers can be very secretive about their online activity and further fans concern among parents. While social network sites are a great way for people to stay in touch with friends and family all across the world, there are certain precautions that need to be taken concerning your child’s social networking.

 

Good parenting requires a certain balance of caution and liberty. The same applies to the social networking activity of a teenager. Parents need to set down certain rules regarding the amount of time that a child spends online, whether on a social networking site or simply surfing the internet. Parents also should be vigilant about the kind of people their child interacts with online and educate them on the dangers of meeting strangers online. Letting the teenager know that you have an open mindset regarding their social networking will encourage them to be more honest about their online dealings. Once these precautionary measures are taken, you will be surprised to know the social networking can be highly beneficial to your child.

 

Teachers and lecturers today use such sites to connect with their students, allowing a closer student teacher bond and understanding that can help your child achieve better grades. As teenagers are able to express themselves freely on such sites, their confidence can grow by leaps and bounds. However, you should be careful that your child is not becoming a target of online bullying and let them know that they don’t have to tolerate such behavior.

 

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There was a time that the only that you could stay in touch with your friends was either through the telephone or meeting them in person. If your friends moved away, you would stay in touch with them by sending mails through post. There were even services like Pen Pal that allowed you to get in touch which complete strangers and make new friends. The internet changed all that!

 

While mails have now become emails that send off messages instantly, social networking sites have taken socializing on the internet to a whole new level! Facebook, Orkut, MySpace and several such sites are the new ‘hang outs’ for teenagers where they can meet up with friends online and have discussion as groups, upload pictures and videos for all their friends to see and comment on, plan up events and much more. However, good parenting always asks for parents to be vigilant about their child’s associations and so it is important that you know just how good (or bad) social networking sites are for your kids.

 

  1. A teen can build a good support group of friends online and can discuss issues that would be embarrassing to talk about in person.
  2. It encourages teens to stay in touch with family and friends without having to spend real time with them.
  3. Social networking sites have several tools that allow teenagers to express themselves freely that reduces adolescent stress levels.
  4. Teenagers can actually get addicted to social networking, spending more than three hours every day on networking.
  5. Restraining teens from spending too much time on such sites after leads to depression and, in turn, retaliation.

 

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